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I have forgotten what it was like…

Posted on May 29, 2011 by marialachica.
Categories: Blogging.

It is just gone 12pm on this cloudy, last Sunday of May, and I am sitting at my desk at home instead of than at Chessington World of Adventures where I was supposed to be enjoying the birthday celebrations of a friend of mine.

There was an email last week sent to everybody attending with specific instructions on where and when to meet. I read the email again last night to make sure I had all the details and off I went early this morning to be there on time. I arrived at Chessington at 9.40 which was a tiny bit earlier than agreed. However, suddenly, a doubt entered my mind: the meeting point was “the car park”, however, this car park was huge, so I decided to go towards the top of the car park, right next to the entrance of the adventure park. So there I waited, and waited, and waited a bit more. I saw how the queues for the ticket booth were getting bigger and bigger, but I didn’t want to join the queue in case I got to the end and my friends hadn’t turned up yet.

Now, the most important fact to this little story is that I didn’t take a mobile phone with me (long story short: my personal phone died a hundred years ago, so I use the work phone most of the time. However, the new work phones that we now have are utterly rubbish and run out of battery even if you are not using them. I had two lines of battery on Wednesday. I had none last night, despite the fact that I hadn’t used it since. And, the charger is at work – So, no, I didn’t have a mobile phone to take with me).

Still, I was confident that the instructions were clear enough for me not to need a phone. So I waited and waited, and waited a bit more (sorry, I am repeating myself, but it was a lot of waiting I did!).

At 10:30 I had waited for more than 45 minutes and my patience had run out. I decided to leave and come back home. Almost three hours of my life and 100 miles in the clock of my car that I am never going to get back.

So, yeah, how did we use to manage in the pre-internet/pre-mobile phone era? I think I’ve forgotten… I most definitely don’t remember this hassle and the pain of having to wait for someone for 45 minutes. When my friends and I agreed to meet somewhere there was no question that people would make it, without having to check and double check via internet or text. We have become too accustomed to rely on these new technologies and I can now say that we are pretty much lost without them.

How sad.

5 comments.

Comment on May 29th, 2011.

So… what happened exactly? Last minute change of plans? Did the e-mail say ‘next Saturday’ or something of the sort? DH always messed up when meeting up with someone. He would make a point of meeting ‘next Friday’ (and he was meaning the nearest Friday to the day he was on), but the English-speaking world would understand that not as the coming Friday, but the next one. Always. Many a time has he found himself all alone in the pub or wherever, not knowing how it was possible that no one was able to make it.

Comment on May 30th, 2011.

I have no idea… I sent a message to the birthday girl when I got home and I still haven’t received an answer; but she has been on facebook since last night though…. Who knows, I wonder if she’s annoyed with me for not having waiting another half hour….

Comment on June 2nd, 2011.

Sad it is… I believe we have all become a lot less committed to personal relationships with technology. That is, I find people less likely to commit themselves to anything… As I commented on my blog, even some professionals believe that technology makes them lazier as professionals.

Comment on June 3rd, 2011.

Sorry you got stood up Maria, how rude!

I don’t remember this hassle on my pre-technology days either. Perhaps we have all become far too complacent seeing that all we have to do to cancel an engagement at the last minute is send a quick text.

Hope you get an explanation!

Comment on June 3rd, 2011.

Well, I didn’t get an explanation, but I did get a message on my answer phone machine that was dated 29/05/11 at 10.57 – So it looks like I should have waited for another half an hour… despite the fact that they were there an hour later than the agreed time…

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